Menopause and Sex
Menopause is here to stay, whether you like it or not, egg production has come to an end and sexual life takes a dip and before you realize, age has gotten up with you and you have to find a replacement. Emphasis naturally should shift to other matters of interest and you can still be a productive citizen.
When eggs go, menses follow suit and the next thing, hormones diminish and there is no reversing unless assisted with hormone therapy or herbal products. Follicle stimulating hormone is suspended and no more estrogen either enters the blood so in total you wrinkle around almost everywhere and succumb to the effects of menopause.
In menopause, libido declines off, there is no enough estrogen in the body and its production has gone down. To resuscitate it, one needs to get a high supply of estrogen which is not possible naturally. Aging process is automatic, many organs reduce their functions, cells begin to lose touch and vigor and even looks of a woman cannot attract a man.
The vulva walls become tough and lubrication is not coming any more; this hardening is not something to smile about. Any sexual trial is often met with difficulties during penetration and any pressure exerted may result in pain and damage leaving behind bruises. In worse situations, bleeding may occur. This situation is quite unfortunate for the jumpy retirees who are still interested in sex and for many, a way out must be looked for to maneuver the disaster. Artificial lubricants must be provided to ease the stress.
Obesity accompanies menopause and in many instances, women in this category are a clumsy lot, very irritating looking for recognition and uncomfortable in bed. Their physical structures alone deter any measure of attraction and have to bear with the situation alone. Sex is not possible under such circumstances. Men prefer slim consumables that allow comfortable penetration and easy maneuvering. Weight has to be worked on by any means for any good things to happen.
Mood swings, hot flushes and night sweats are very uncomfortable and mean much during any sexual activity trial. The stress associated with it and the discomfort really must be treated for life to resume. I believe no man can stand such an environment and stomach the drill of sleeplessness when one is suppose to be having fun and supporting the entire game. Such a woman gets traumatized and cannot imagine what the world is up to. Menopause is a whole department in woman's life that needs tender care and understanding which might not be available at the touch of the button. A lot of support must come in if sex is to be revived. Herbal products must be sourced, hormonal therapy must be acquired, counselors must step in and a myriad of other consultants need provide their service for a woman to become a woman again. Otherwise the remaining years of life will all be hell, punctuated by aches and pains all over resulting in loss of life fullness.
Copyrighted by Ryan Mutt. Posted on August 31, 2010.
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